Sexologist gave advice to indecisive lovers

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Psychologist and sexologist Lori Mintz named five ways to unobtrusively suggest sex to your partner.

Minz emphasized that it is absolutely normal to feel embarrassed when proposing sex. She explained that at such moments a person is afraid of being rejected and becomes vulnerable. To avoid having to talk directly about intimacy, the sexologist advised starting with nonverbal signals – hugs and kisses. Another good way is to write erotic notes or online messages.

However, Mintz believes that the most effective way is not to hint at sex, but to talk about it honestly. She warned that it is better to talk about such topics outside the bedroom. “Tell each other how you like to start sex. Also agree on a way to gently refuse it,” she advised.

The sexologist added that you can let your partner know your desire by reminding them of common erotic memories. “Tell them about yourself. For example, say that you remembered a moment from your sex life and would be happy to repeat it right now,” Mintz says. She also believes that intimacy can be hinted at through compliments.