How to lend money correctly and not get into a fight

When a friend or loved one asks you to borrow money, you find yourself in a minefield.

It is an art to lend money correctly, because you need not to be fooled and not to spoil your relationship with a person.

Sometimes, borrowed money becomes a real bone of contention between friends, relatives and friends. And the proverb says: “Lend as much money as you are not afraid to lose.” So, how to lend money so as not to quarrel?

Debt is like a gift

Lend such an amount of money, with which you can part once and for all. And if they are returned to you, consider it a gift to you both ways.

Forget large sums

Don't borrow large amounts Sumy. If you borrow a small amount of money, then the loss will not be so bad. If a person does not return even a small thing to you, then it is better not to hope for it.

STOP all insults

Well, how is it not lend money to a friend or loved one? It's a shame. And I don't want to offend him. Remember that resentment is stupid. A person is not ashamed to violate your boundaries with his request?

Learn to refuse

If you are asked to borrow a large sum, you you have every right to refuse. Do you want to give all the money and count the pennies?

Just know that lending money and refusing this request is completely normal, just like asking for it.