It turns out that you can recognize a frivolous man by the questions he asks on the first date.

“How many partners did you have before me?”

Such questions signal that a man is ill-mannered, shameless. But, despite this, you should not immediately write him off. It is quite possible that he is simply looking for a woman who has never had anyone before him. On the other hand, such a question may mean that he is trying to “spy out the situation” and find out whether you can easily be persuaded to quickly move the relationship to a new level.

Many women ask how to answer such a question. In this situation, you can joke or tell it like it is. What is important is not your answer, but how the man will continue the conversation. If he takes the information into account and simply continues the conversation, everything is fine. If he starts to develop this topic, then this is a bad sign.

This question is often asked by pick-ups, who want to understand how difficult a “prey” you will be and how to communicate with you. This is how they try to steer the conversation in the direction they want. For a first date, this is too much. If a man continues to develop this topic, you should not continue the relationship with him.

Material issues

“Are you renting an apartment or do you have your own?” For a normal man, it should not make any difference where the lady he is dating lives. It is quite possible that you are dealing with a not entirely honest person, or he is simply ill-mannered, as in the case of the first question.

“How much do you earn?” This question should have no meaning for a normal man. It is usually asked by Alphonses who need to understand what their booty might be. If you are much older than the man you are dating, be especially careful.

The best answer to such a question, which will help to identify a frivolous and dangerous man, is a joke. Can you say that you have enough for your own needs without specifying the details?

“Do you like receiving gifts from men?”

If the man who asked this question is rich, then perhaps he wants you to say “yes” because he needs to shorten the path from courtship to a serious relationship. He is exploring the situation, trying to understand whether it is possible to buy your love with gifts.

He will most likely not pursue any other goal. He needs to know what his chances are of getting what he wants in the shortest possible time.

“Would you like to come to my place?”

It happens that a spark appears on the first date, because you want to take the relationship to the next level as soon as possible. But if this does not happen, it is better to refuse such offers.

Chemistry, stormy and crazy feelings appear with not all men in the first minutes of communication. If the date was not full of kisses and touches, and the man asks you about it, he very likely wants only this from you. Maybe you're a pick-up truck who needs to check your name and then run away.

What questions can be considered positive

Psychologists and experts in the field of relationships believe that it is best when a man on the first date asks questions from the category: “What is your favorite movie?”, “How do you relax?” and so on.

If he asks questions that reveal you as a person, but do not touch on too personal topics, this man is very suitable for the title of your future life partner. One of the main signs that this is your man is ease of communication. If a man asks strange questions on the first date that you don't want to answer, then, most likely, your further communication will not work out in the same way.