Named the most important component of romantic relationships

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How we appear to romantic partners directly affects the quality of our relations Researchers from McGill University in Canada came to this conclusion.

Emotional connections are the same language without words that we use in communication with partners. Emotions are a kind of synergy between two characters, thanks to which partners remain together. People demonstrate interaction of personality and emotions, building full trust relationships. But it is human nature to pay attention to the judgments of other people, as practice shows. And this demonstrates the so-called methodicality of emotions.

This is called the ability to draw conclusions about how others perceive us, and how correctly. Researchers from Canada decided to find out whether people are familiar with how their romantic partners evaluate their own emotions, compared to the expected emotions of other people. Imagine that you are angry because you did not turn in the laundry on time. Does your partner relate to your anger as well as other people would?

It turns out that this is very important in a relationship. If he perceives your reaction as something completely abnormal and illogical, it is very bad for the relationship. These are the results of a survey of more than 189 couples who are in a romantic relationship. Scientists tried to determine how emotional methodicality affects the quality of the relationship in real time.

Regardless of how we feel, being in union with someone will be more positive if we know how our partner perceives our emotions are the same as other people's. Couples cope better with conflicts when they know how their partners feel about them. Research also suggests that if a person is blissfully unaware of the unique impressions of their partner, then this leads to an improvement in the quality of the instant relationship.