Several situations when you should postpone marriage

So in which cases it is still It is not worth getting married, even if you really want?

>You feel the tricky

he is so caring, caring well, calling, writes a message and always ready to help at the first call … for some time. And you know the souls that this time will pass when the bell of the glasses at your wedding does not have time to disappear. How to recognize such “magic fan” and not get into their traps?

First of all, if you feel that something is wrong here, then something is wrong here. If there is a doubt, it is definitely “no”. Always ready to help? But not only when it is really needed! And in the first more or less serious problem, he finds a thousand reasons why he cannot help, instead of finding only one that will probably work. And most importantly-watch him communicating with his mom, there will probably be more than one sign of how he will treat you.

Your married girlfriend has invited you to a coffee branch and you failed to avoid meeting. So you knew what this conversation would end. After you have told you how wonderful you have (and a man to feel happy is not required), and you look better than her (this is purely objective), she still begins to complain about the subject , but when you find the same, and you are wondering (about yourself, of course), why all the conversations automatically reduce the topic of men, because there is so much interesting in the world! You are ready to endure your mother's periodic sighs – she has one goal: you want the soul to calm down because she attached a baby. And why does a girlfriend insist on marriage? Do not take the pressure of your immediate surroundings. In general, the environment is built of interest. If you have other hobbies now, there is nothing wrong with this-dilute the circle of girlfriends with new persons. Physical only

And the night goes to the city, and suddenly you get alone with this cold glass of wine. You carelessly throw a message: “How are you?” How is the password from an ephemeral sense of closeness and solitude. The next moment you already get this endless pleasure … No one has brought you as much pleasure as your “husband for an hour”. But the sun is rising, and you are barely looking at each other, and there can be no question of having a heartfelt conversation. How many times have you been convinced that there is absolutely nothing to talk about… The topics of clothing and famous personalities you can discuss with your girlfriend.

Unfortunately, physical proximity does not always mean emotional proximity … If you are not interested in each other at all in the afternoon, then you should definitely not associate your life with this person, no matter how wonderful she is in bed. The foundation of a harmonious family life is the ability to listen and hear each other. If you have nothing to talk about, then there will be no what you would like to listen. p>And here you meet, seemingly “that perfect” man and are ready to ignore some of his shortcomings, because in general, and in general, he can give you the level of comfort and safety that every woman dreams of. But imagine that it is bankrupt or very hard. Will you be able to stay with him? .

You started doubt that more worthy of more

“maybe I want too much?” – a treacherous voice is being made when you finished with someone again. But you know why you didn't have a relationship! Precisely because you tried to close your eyes at some moments and decide to get off your pedestal so you don't seem too demanding! And here's the result. If you decide that they are worthy of the best, so it is. If you are like that you are. And it is important not to get lost in your doubts, but to continue to look at the future and enjoy your life right now.