Sexologist lists irreparable reasons for lack of relationships

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Some of the reasons for the lack of relationships in life are beyond a person's control or almost impossible to influence, warned sexologist Tracy Cox.

According to her, an irreparable obstacle can be the type of preference that is developed in a person in childhood in relationships with parents. If the type of attachment is not reliable, but anxious or avoidant, finding a partner can be difficult. “You cannot change the type of preference, but you can change its impact on relationships by carefully choosing partners. “A union with a reliable person will help mitigate the negative effect of other types,” she wrote.

In addition, you can't fix extroversion and introversion – the latter can interfere with building relationships. “Introverts like to be alone, don't enjoy the company of people and are shy about making the first move,” says Cox.

It's also difficult, Cox added, to change your background and income. “Living in a tiny village and taking care of aging parents, you can already count on little in terms of dates, plus you never go to them. And if it's hard to pay for an apartment and food, relationships become even more stressful,” the sexologist writes.

Finally, she continued, a person's non-conformity to stereotypes can interfere, despite the fact that society is becoming more inclusive and accepting.