Time of change: how to understand that you are on the threshold of big changes

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This day is sure to come. When you suddenly and clearly understand that life has changed dramatically. What is the moment you start growing as a person. Whatever the opposite is, but growth without pain does not happen. And to be more precise: it is the pain that promotes growth. In the turtle of comfort you and so “good” – why grow? But if you leave your cozy house ”(or rather, the swamp) – it will be embarrassed immediately.

Usually, we do not notice this, but there are sure that you have grown all the former settings and borders. So you need to change something. The thing is that no matter how much you are cheating yourself, and no matter how you resist the changes-from it not to go.

If you notice that everything that filled you with happiness does not cause any emotions – it's time to think seriously. The fact is that in this way the soul tries to reproach and reach you, saying that it is time to go forward. Everything has changed, and in the old shoes you will not pass this road. In other words, it is necessary to discard all the old and grow further. Most likely, it's time to dramatically review your life goals and priorities. Well, most importantly, the current lifestyle.

You subconsciously destroy your life

when a person is no longer happy-they cover disappointment, despair and anger. She cannot understand what is happening to her, explodes and is constantly in a state of stress. Thus destroys your own life.

Destructive behavior is manifested in the most different ways. We are looking for comfort in alcohol, drugs, disorderly ligaments. Thus, we try to escape from problems, forget at least for some time that we are confused and do not know where to go on.What is well with someone today does not mean that it will last forever. From time to time we catch ourselves to look at loved ones and friends with completely different eyes. We look and wonder: “Are they? Did we change? And here you suddenly feel that they are the last people in the world with whom they would like to talk.

to find the reason for the change that happened is in vain. No one is guilty, usually. Neither they nor you. Take this as a signal that life has gone into a dead end. As a call to action: A something needs to be changed.

Do something new that brings pleasure and joy. You will definitely meet like-minded people with whom.You may love to buy popcorn and sit on your favorite sofa for hours watching TV shows or militants. At the same time they laughed loudly and felt happy and rested. And here suddenly there is an incomprehensible thing: neither of that nor from this – all this gets bored. TV programs seem blunt and primitive, fighters are boring and uninteresting. On the contrary, it annoys and causes boredom.

don't be afraid, everything is normal. Maybe it's time to find something deeper than “popcorn evenings”. Or finally realize your ancient dream and learn to draw, sing, ride riding and more.

Hobby options are mass. Don't get hung up on your couch and TV. Living outside the window is much more interesting. And it's time to change it!

Don't be afraid to change your life and change. Your soul should not cry and miss – it is created for happiness!