What gets in the way of happiness: for what reason it is often impossible to build a long-term relationship

For a long time, the Internet joked about Leonardo DiCaprio, who supposedly breaks up with girls when they turn 25. People wondered why the actor could not build a lasting relationship.

What is really in DiCaprio, we do not know. However, psychologists have told what reason can prevent people from building happy long-term relationships.

Most often the reason for this can be a trauma that a person experienced in the past, but did not work with a psychologist. For example, a relationship lasted 5 months and ended painfully. Then, with a new partner or partner, the injured person will begin to feel discomfort and desire to end the relationship after 5 months. It is worth noting that this may not be influenced by any objective factors and even the desire of the person himself.

It is worth noting that this trauma can spoil not only the romantic sphere. The desire to escape after 5 months can also apply to friendships, work, studies, etc.

In order to get your happy ending and build a long-term relationship, you need to get rid of disturbing baggage from the past. The best way is to go to therapy. Then you can achieve harmony not only with others, but also – most importantly – with yourself.