Why are there different children in the same family, even if they are brought up the same way: an expert's explanation

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Even if parents believe that they treat all their children the same way, sons and daughters perceive parenting differently. In addition, the sensitivity of boys and girls differs due to their temperament.

Mate explained using the example of a presenter who asked a specialist why he and his sister were raised differently, although they have the same parents. a boy Even if they wanted to, they wouldn't be able to, because they are culturally programmed differently. Second, you were of different ages. You appeared at different stages of their personal and parental relationships, as well as the level of self-knowledge. You didn't have the same parents. You didn't grow up in the same house,” the expert said.

“And secondly, you may have different sensitivities. One of you may be more or less sensitive by temperament. So even if the parents were the same with each of you, although this is not the case, but even if they were, you would still perceive them differently,” he adds.

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