Why even good and reliable men cheat: a psychologist named 8 reasons

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No one is safe from betrayal. It happens that even the most faithful family members suddenly find themselves betrayed. A psychologist helped to figure out why this happens.

A family psychologist identified 8 reasons for men's betrayals.

Reason #1. Problems in the family.

– Most of the couples who came to me for counseling because of male infidelity had some serious relationship problems. Because of which the adulterer followed – explains the psychologist. – Most often these are conflicts, unresolved disagreements.

Reason #2. Boredom.

According to the psychologist, it happens that everything seems to be fine with the couple, mutual understanding is complete and suddenly the man starts an affair. And all because he needs emotions and he, not finding them in his own bed, goes to someone else's.

Reason #3. Adventurism.

– Many people simply adore experiments. They need constant variety, explains the psychologist. – If the wives or girlfriends of such men are sensitive, then everything is fine. Otherwise, over time, a man may seek variety in his intimate life, unfortunately, with other women.

Reason #4. Dissatisfaction.

Among the women who are cheated on, many are too busy with work or raising children. The vector of interest comes from a man who, over time, begins to feel useless and uninteresting. He needs feedback, if he does not find it in his own family, he will look for another person.

Reason #5. Bad example.

Among pathological traitors, the majority are those who had an example of similar behavior in childhood. If one of the parents cheated or mom and dad often cursed, shamelessly humiliated each other, then in adult life it is often difficult for a person to build healthy relationships.

Reason No. 6. Revenge.

A man can take revenge. Let the woman not even cheat on him, but enjoys the attention of other men, without reacting to the fact that the other half is unpleasant.

Reason No. 7. Pretext.

– You will be surprised, but among the frequent reasons for betrayals there is betrayal for the sake of separation or divorce, – the psychologist explains. – A person does not find a reason to end unnecessary relationships and deliberately decides to cheat.

Reason #8. Unrequited feelings.

And it happens that a man loves a woman more than she loves him. Later, when the passion subsides, such coldness becomes obvious. Such men do not feel needed. It often happens that a woman is stronger in character and constantly humiliates her husband. Sooner or later, such a man will go to raise his self-esteem with others.